LYLBTB Epilogue … to be continued
I started this site about 2 years ago – I was a reading fiend, in my own fictional frenzy!! I scoured the new release lists at the publishers daily, and followed Goodreads with a passion – always looking for the next best book!! But somewhere along the way my love of reading became a chore, a job almost. I have a job. I also have a family, including 2 teenage daughters, whom I love dearly…. but…. reading was my relief at the end of a long day, my escape. And the last few months of never-even-finishing a book has saddened me beyond belief. So, I am closing the site down … for now? for good? Not sure. Once my battery is recharged I may want to revert to what it was at the beginning – just me buying my books, and pimping my favourite reads. Time will tell.
You see, I never set out to make this site a business – I was always just about pimping the authors and their books, fuelled by my almost physical need to read. Not all the free books that get thrown at review sites can make up for the loss of my reading passion. There is no such thing as a free lunch. And I wanna eat!! I wanna return to that smorgasbord of good books that I know are out there!
So to all the publishers and authors that have worked with me over the last 2 years – a massive thanks for your generosity ❤ if I owe you a review – I will definitely honour that debt. Just let me refresh, rewind, and rekindle my need to read. (My personal take on the 3 R’s!!) 😀
And to the truly talented team of reviewers – the LYLBTB Posse; Faye, Whit!!!!!, BookSmitten, Deb, Jen, Dianne, Alex, Carli, Seymour, Sid, Shay, Lady McNeill, Sally, T, KC, Allison and Janet – thank you sooooo much for the wonderful, and deeply thought out reviews you have written. Whatever plans any of you have for your reading/reviewing future I wish you the best of luck, and a million followers to all of you ❤
To those that took the time to read the reviews and even comment – a big thank you! I do hope we didn’t cost you too much money, or increased your TBR piles too much (she lied!) 🙂 Long may your passion for books, specifically within the m/m genre, continue ….. Go. Buy the Book!
Thank you for giving me the platform to rave profusely (very profusely – I know I tend toward essay length reviews, lol) about some of my most beloved books and some wonderful new and new-to-me authors. I am so very grateful for all the hard work you’ve put into making this blog something special. Enjoy the time spent with your family and getting your passion for reading back again.
xxAniko
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Thanks, Aniko ❤
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Barb…
This post resonates so deeply with me. I understand so much how you’re feeling. I wish you ALL the best and hope your time recharging will bring back your love of reading! You and this blog will be missed!
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Thanks so much Susan xx
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I only found your site this year Barb, but thanks for all the work – and I’m sorry that your joy and relaxation became a job. Enjoy your recharging and get your joy back!
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I even have a series lined up….. Widdershins!! 🙂
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Good one! I really love that series!
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I have really enjoyed your review blog. You will be missed, but I totally understand you need to get back to your own life 🙂 Thanks for everything.
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❤ ❤
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Thank you so much for your dedication and also hosting me several times in the past two years. I’ve always liked visiting your site. Good luck recharging your batteries and recovering your lost passion for books. Sometimes we really need to go back to basics. ❤️
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Thanks Taylor ❤ I have LOVED having you stop by, and am certainly looking forward to lots more from you and your wide array of characters and books!
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Hi Barb, thank you for all the effort and fun you put into this site – i really enjoyed the reviews and interviews and parties. I also really enjoyed being part of such a friendly and welcoming reviewing posse. I will miss the blog very much. Wishing you the best awesome-books streak! now that you will have more time to pick and choose the ones you really feel like reading just for yourself. Lots of hugs!
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Thanks KC xxx
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Thank you for letting be be a part of your blog family. I would have never met you or the other awesome reviewers, or discovered so many new authors and books that I may have never found otherwise. Thank you for all of your hard work and dedication. I hope you get your three “R’s” and find your joy in reading again. xoxo
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Me tooooo!! Thanks so much xx
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This is one of the reasons I’ve thought about but never started a blog or why I haven’t become a caterer even though I LOVE cooking. I never want those things I love to become something I have to force myself to slog through. Thank you for all the work and effort you’ve put into this. I hope you find your love for and joy in reading again.
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Yep. I totally agree. It is sad when need overpowers desire, and things become chores.
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Thanks for all the reviews. I know what you mean about free books. I’ve gotten really picky about free and sale books lately.
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Yep. And thank you for being a regular visitor xx
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Dang. I will miss this blog, but I really, really understand.
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Yeah, it was a tough decision.. But if I’m not reading then how can I review? Thanks Shay xx
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I just want to thank you so much. ❤ For everything.
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Thank you LB xx
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I’m going to miss the blog. I’ve said it before and believe it still, the site and work published has had a significant positive impact on the mm genre. Good luck in whatever you do and great, for-fun reading to you,. So grateful to have been a part of it. Loved every moment of it.
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Thanks Carli xx
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Barb, you’ve put your heart and soul into this blog and it’s meant so much to so many people. Thank you for including me as a member of the posse – I’ve met amazing people and discovered hidden treasures of books. It’s been a great experience for me to break out of my shell a bit with writing reviews, and I’m grateful for this being the place I did that. ♥ Enjoy your rejuvenation 🙂 Oh, when you get to Widdershins, say hello to Whyborne and Griffin for me 😉 😀
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Thanks Dianne xx it was a pleasure working with you!
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Sounds like you’re making the right decision, but the site will be missed!
Happy reading!
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Thanks Kate xx I mulled it over for a while
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Thank you so much for allowing me to be a part of the posse and for putting so much time and passion into the blog. It’s truly been a lot of fun. I hope you’ll soon find enjoyment in reading again.
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Thank YOU for all your contributions xx
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Thanks for taking the time to post all the reviews. While I may have added to my TBR lists I value the opinions of people who enjoy the genre so much. I may find more to read but I also can steer clear of few so I think things even out in the end. I’ll miss the email updates and such but understand how burnt out one can get. I read A LOT, but I can’t imagine having to read then put together all my thoughts for the masses. Enjoy your time away – and hope you get your reading “love” back!
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Me too! And thanks xx
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You will be missed – I visited your blog often for the reviews and was lucky enough to win a few of your giveaways. I hope you can really sit back and enjoy your time off with your daughters and family.
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Thanks Lisa ❤
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Wishing you a time of renewal and spending quality time with your family and friends. Thanks to you and your talented team of reviewers for all of your hard work involved with the website.
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Thanks so much ❤ I am sure you will see them all elsewhere xx
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I can’t imagine how much effort and energy you must have poured into this blog! Thank you and your co-reviewers for all you did <3. I hope you will enjoy reading for fun again and Widdershins is a very good start 😀
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Thanks, Sylvia xx
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I’ve enjoyed your blog and wish you the best. Hope you enjoy your R&R. 🙂
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Hey Barb! I think you had a pretty good run. Running a reader-focused review blog like this one is like hosting a continual party where you never know who the guests are going to be. Fun at first, but eventually tiring and confusing. 🙂
As a publisher I really appreciated your generosity and I learned a lot from you about marketing (which you have a natural skill for as I’ve said before.)
As an author I treasure my custom mugs! Thank you for your great party!
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thanks so much Nicole ❤ you and your posse are legends in my book! thanks to your books 😛 and just your general ways – fun, funny, generous – my fave traits!!
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Good Luck Barb I know this discision was hard to make
hugs to you Dani xx
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please feel free to tell your loyal reviewers if they are looking for a new team they are very welcome to take a look around Love Bytes ( reviews )
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Thanks so much Dani ❤
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